percaya @ tidak?

hello guys. bila da mula berblog, maka akan gila nak post entry la plok. hehehe ;)

aritu cik marlia ada baca kat page TERFAKTAB regarding long distance relationship. and berjuta lemon komen ler yang come out right? 

so cik marlia terfikir, i have two experience in long distance relationship. which is sangat menguji la kan.if you are not strong enough untuk stay in this type of relationship cik marlia advice supaya not to involve in this kind of relationship laaa. 

first: long distance relationship ni require kepercayaan yang sangat tinggi kat pasangan taw. and i dunno if there is someone yang boleh percaya pakwe/makwe korang 100%. one thing if you believe them 100% you are stupid enough sorry it is a little bit harsh but cik marlia nak you all sedar so that you won't be stupid like i am.

second:jujur. yes, i believe ade jer orang yang jujur dalam perhubungan but not all. payah hokeh nak cari orang yang betul betul jujur in relationship. at least you have cheated your pakwe/makwe once. hokeh let me give an example, korang nak lepaking with your friends (for guys) and your friends tu like both guys and the ladies. so korang mesty nak have fun gegila enjoy with friends, right? then,  your makwe exactly akan tanya with who will you go out, right? and yet would you tell her that there will be your ladies friends since you know that she will get jealous and susah untuk dipujuk, and at the same time ko nak enjoy ni ngan kawan kawan. so jalan paling mudah "i keluar ngan mat, abu, salleh etc jer. don't worry ok i akan balik awal."

so da berlaku satu penipuan kat situ kan? hokeh not only guys jer buat camni yang ladies pun sama. takot kan pakwe bising keluar sampai malam tak balik lagi but still nak enjoy jugak ngan kawan kawan, thus cakap laaa korang da balik sedangkan korang still berjimba dalam karaoke right?

so, it is really hard taw bila long distance relationship ni. even you all was was pun you all just boleh tanya and terpaksa percaya. makan hati hokeh

pastu da makan hati masing masing start laaa cari alternative lain. tu yang jadi isu fall in love ngan orang laen plak. 

cik marlia penah rasa semua tu and i hate being in long distance relationship. 

kalau nak taw betol betol dia jujur ngan you guys only one thing. pray hard to Allah that sepandai pandai tupai melompat akhirnya jatuh ke tanah kan? so with Allah wills kalau si dia tak jujur, rahsia akan terbongkar jugak ;) tapi you have to be strong enough to accept that you have been cheated by your own pakwe/makwe.

bila once ko da kena tipu, mudah ke ko nak percaya lagi makwe/pakwe ko? ikut hati marah, ko rasa nak campak gaung jer kan pakwe/makwe ko tuh. but disebabkan ko ni berhati mulia (sikit la) then ko terima untuk peluang kedua.

but believe me, peluang yang ko bagi tu tak kan sama macam peluang pertama. hell susah ok. semua benda ko akan jadi was was even benda tu benda yang betol. so bagi cik marlia la, it is no second chance in relationship sebab ape? it won't be the same as old one ;)

if ko layan sekali pun ko kena realize that perasaan ko tuh lebih kepada perasaan kesian kat dia. tu jer. tak nak la dia buat something yang membahayakan diri dia sebagai tanda protes ko buang dia dalam hidup and hukum diri dia because of salah that he/she did. 

ni just sharing of my experience hokeh. korang nak emo gegila nak cakap cik marlia emo ke hape suka hati la, for me masing masing ade their own experiences and ade pandangan masing masing regarding this topics. 

untuk yang berjaya syabas diucapkan. untuk yang berperangai camtu, ubah ubah ler perangai tu sebab you all akan rasa sendiri saketnyer kena tipu bila kena kat batang hidung sendiri. selalu you all buat orang kan, now you get it by your ownself. terduduk ko kat situ nanti ;p

so, fikir fikir kan la.  ;)